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People who have borderline personality disorder often struggle with anger management problems. Commonly referred to as BPD rage, this symptom can include both verbal outbursts and physical aggressiveness.
What Is Borderline Personality Disorder?
Before we discuss borderline personality disorder rage, it can be helpful to first review some basic facts about the condition itself.
Borderline personality disorder, or BPD, is one of 10 personality disorders in the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5). BPD is categorized as a Cluster B personality disorder, along with:
- Antisocial personality disorder
- Histrionic personality disorder
- Narcissistic personality disorder
The general description of Cluster B disorders in the DSM-5 is that people who have one of these conditions “often appear dramatic, emotional, or erratic.”
BPD Symptoms
The dominant traits of BPD are instability and impulsivity. To be accurately diagnosed with this condition, a person must meet at least five of the following nine criteria:
- Frantic efforts to avoid being abandoned, even if there is no credible reason to believe this is likely to occur
- A history of intense and unstable relationships, during which the person may alternate between idealizing and devaluing their partner
- Persistent instability in self-image or sense of self
- Impulsivity in at least two areas that have the potential to cause considerable harm, such as gambling, spending, binge eating, engaging in unsafe sex, substance use, and reckless driving
- Recurrent gestures, threats, or behaviors related to self-harm or suicide
- Periods of intense anxiety, irritability, or deep unhappiness that may last from a few hours to a few days
- Chronic sense of emptiness
- Inappropriate and intense anger that is difficult to control, which may lead to frequent arguments or physical altercations
- Periods of stress-related paranoia or dissociation (the sense of being detached from one’s mind, body, and/or environment)
What Is BPD Rage?
The term BPD rage refers to the eighth symptom listed in the previous section. Not everyone with borderline personality disorder will exhibit this symptom, but it is common among people who have the condition.
As noted in the initial description of this symptom, BPD rage can be described as inappropriate, intense, and uncontrolled:
- Inappropriate – BPD rage may occur for no apparent reason, or as a response to what most people would define as relatively minor stressors or problems.
- Intense – As indicated by the word “rage,” this symptom often involves over-the-top or excessive outbursts, which may include both verbal and physical expressions of severe anger.
- Uncontrolled – Once a person with BPD begins to express their anger, they may find it difficult or impossible to effectively manage their words and actions.
What Causes BPD Rage?
There is no single, easily identifiable cause of BPD rage. Generally speaking, though, it may be influenced by the individual’s past as well as some of their other BPD symptoms. And it can be triggered by a variety of events or circumstances.
Trauma
Many people who have BPD have histories of being abused, neglected, or otherwise traumatized during childhood. Clinicians refer to these as adverse childhood experiences, or ACEs.
As described in a November 2024 research article in the journal Frontiers in Psychiatry, childhood trauma has “significant direct predictive effects on borderline personality disorder.” A September 2021 study, also published by Frontiers in Psychiatry, noted that the prevalence of childhood trauma may be as high as 90% among people with BPD.
Untreated trauma can cause dysfunction within the sympathetic nervous system, which controls the body’s “fight or flight” response. When someone feels as though they are constantly under threat, their ability to offer calm, measured responses to stressors may be diminished considerably.
Other symptoms
It may be easier to understand why someone with BPD has difficulty with anger management when you consider that they may also be dealing with:
- Fear of being abandoned
- Relationship instability
- Low self-esteem
- Impulsivity
- Paranoia
The combined impact of these symptoms can undermine a person’s emotional regulation, leading to excessive displays of intense anger.
External triggers
Trauma and other symptoms can fuel BPD rage, but it often takes the spark of an external event to trigger an explosion of anger, aggression, or even violence. While it would be impossible to list every potential trigger for BPD rage, common examples include:
- Feeling that they are being criticized (even if the person providing the feedback does not intend it to be perceived as a negative judgement)
- Changed or canceled plans (which the individual with BPD may interpret as a sign of impending abandonment)
- Believing that they are being ignored, left out, or otherwise ostracized
- Disagreements or minor conflicts with others
- Everyday stressors such as demanding projects at work, impending exams in school, or financial worries at home
Is BPD Rage Treatable?
Borderline personality disorder is a chronic mental health condition. This means that a person is unlikely to ever be “cured” of BPD. However, it is treatable. With the right type of care, a person can experience a reduction in symptoms and begin to live a healthier and more satisfying life.
Personalization is a key feature of effective BPD treatment, so one person’s experience can be quite different from another’s. In many cases, though, treatment involves a combination of medication and therapy.
Medication
No drugs have yet been developed specifically to treat BPD. But various prescription meds can be beneficial for easing certain symptoms or addressing co-occurring conditions.
Depending on a person’s specific circumstances, the medication component of their care for BPD may include:
- Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs)
- Benzodiazepines
- Antipsychotics
- Mood stabilizers
Therapy
A May 2023 report in the journal CNS Drugs identified the following five evidence-based treatments for borderline personality disorder:
- Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT)
- Mentalization-based treatment (MBT)
- Schema focused therapy (SFT)
- Transference-focused psychotherapy (TFP)
- Systems training for emotional predictability and problem solving (STEPPS)
Additional therapies that may be included into a comprehensive treatment plan for someone with BPD include:
- Individual, group, and family therapy
- Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy
- Brainspotting therapy
- Red light therapy
- Holistic therapies
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